My sister-in-law is in a competition, with herself. Although, she apparently believes its with me. I keep trying to tell her I do not participate in baby making competitions, even though I have always been a competitive person. I was an athlete, name a sport and I probably participated in it in high school. Competition is in my nature but NOT when it comes to babies. My husband and I got pregnant pretty early in our marriage. My sister in law and her husband waited many years into their marriage to have kids, which of course was their choice. When I just had my daughter we ended up Skyping with them (they lived far away) and she kept asking all these things about birth, little did I know that she was pregnant again. They hid it up to when she was seven months. I was obviously naive back then and didn't think much of it but now she keeps asking when we're having our second child every time we see her. Lady calm down. It's not a race or a competition! If you would like to have four more before we have our second one, then do it!